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niteflyerfaerie In reply to ??? [2006-03-12 04:18:26 +0000 UTC]

yeah! cuz i'm a bitch like the TYPICAL woman! No, i didn't get it off a list. I was OFFENDED and therefore said something. And see how offended you were when i just gave you a taste of your own medicine? I don't think there is such thing as a typical man, or a typical woman. i do beleive that patriarchy is so deeply ingrained in so many societies that sexism is completely disregarded at many times, though. I dont like the comment you made because it was a hurtful and immature comment that comes from what society tells everybody to think about women, and how society tells women and men to act. I just want to clarify that i didn't make this comment cuz you are male, and that i would have said something regardless of your gender, assuming that i could even understand where you lie on that scale. But..that doesn't change the fact that shit like this happens all the time, and i've made it a goal in my life to live actively and to act out when i see something wrong happening. lots of other people don't...and somebody's got to. so maybe jsut think about what you say next time, before you say something that is hurtful. and...grow up.

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dieselpower89 In reply to niteflyerfaerie [2006-03-12 08:41:56 +0000 UTC]

grow up? how? do you know where I can get some pills? Hey maybe if you didnt have such a mega reaction you wouldnt get yourself all worked up. As soon as I saw your picture that is what I thought. why do you think I come on here with some sort of biased hatred about women/men? I think your work is really good. I too have made it a goal in my to act out and also to doo/see as much as possible. That is why tomorrow night I am getting on a plane and flying to Tokyo to live for a year in a small village on the southern island of Japan. That is why the last 3 days I have spent in and around Melbourne with my sweetheart from germany. And yes, when I get back from Japan I will be going to Germany to live with her. So dont associate me with some little hermit that has nothing better to do than sit around a whinge and make hurtful complaints and comments about people's work on DA. typical/normal reaction you had, and is nothing to worry about.

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niteflyerfaerie In reply to dieselpower89 [2006-03-12 22:21:43 +0000 UTC]

hey,
nicely said!
I've been really interested in Japanese culture recently, because i'm a ceramics major and they have some really great work. i'm glad to know that you're not a little hermit that just sits around and makes hurtful comments, hehe. what is it that you meant about when you saw my picture? I didn't really understand that part, but i guess just that it's easy to make assumptions when all you see is the surface. it's good to try to look deeper, and i'm glad to know that you are a really cool sounding person. When i made the first comment, I had just been in a pretty sexist conundrum earlier that day with my evil landlord, who is trying to pull one over on me and make me charge more for a room than he would charge the guy that wants to live there. so i sorta vented that on you. anyways, catchya later.

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dieselpower89 In reply to niteflyerfaerie [2006-03-13 00:58:13 +0000 UTC]

hey dont worry. Yeah i realise that at least one person would of flared up! I just thought of my mother whinging when I saw that picture, and my mother isnt the best at times. I am really sorry though if I did insult you, ok? I just wanted to make a constructive comment and I would delete it if I could.

Sorry

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niteflyerfaerie In reply to dieselpower89 [2006-03-13 01:32:34 +0000 UTC]

its okay! this is the best way to make a new friend, anyways, isn't it? hehehe

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dieselpower89 In reply to niteflyerfaerie [2006-03-13 02:10:39 +0000 UTC]

yeah I know. Isnt DA great!?

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