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Description The intention might be good.  But you have to choose the right words.
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Vtoony [2019-01-15 01:35:24 +0000 UTC]

I have a coworker of mine who transitioned from women to man over the summer. I can remember coming into their office and sort of sensing they had changed, though it really didn't hit me until they told me to call them by the masculine form of their name. I was rather embarrassed by that bit. After that it was a bit confusing to think of them as a man, though eventually the change settled in. While I can't speak about them directly or really know what is going on in their life, I can honestly hope that they are doing well. Seeing a picture like that, even though I can relate the the receiver of the words, I also know what it can be like to be the women in that picture too.

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justinhubbell In reply to Vtoony [2019-01-15 23:49:38 +0000 UTC]

I do too to some degree. I've definitely thought some things when observing people or relating to them that - in hindsight were ignorant thoughts.

We all have to go through that process as we learn, and it's good to acknowledge and honor that fact that ALL of us are we still learning/just now talking.

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Vtoony In reply to justinhubbell [2019-01-17 16:58:38 +0000 UTC]

If we all could accept things from a new light, be aware of our mistakes, and be willing to learn and take away from them, world would be a much more tolerant and empathetic place.

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Zodtra [2016-01-25 23:29:48 +0000 UTC]

I know..

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KidvsKatAdmirer2 [2016-01-25 18:58:03 +0000 UTC]

Sometimes it's better to not say anything...

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justinhubbell In reply to KidvsKatAdmirer2 [2016-01-25 19:23:57 +0000 UTC]

I usually go in for one of these: media.giphy.com/media/JquHVWK4…

But by "I usually go in for one of these" what I REALLY mean is "yeah I never do that."

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