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I hear it everywhere. From female friends, female classmates, female coworkers. Why always the females? The males leave me alone.
"You're 22 now, you should finally start planning for kids!" - "Don't want kids" - "What's wrong with you? Every woman wants one!"
"When I was your age I was married and already pregannt with my second kid."
"But they're so cute! How come you never want children?"
"Women aren't supposed to never have kids!"

Sentences I always hear. Of course the ages of the ladys here differ, but in the end it's all the same.
I just DON'T want to have kids! What's so good about them? They're taking 9 months of your life just to be made, take your sleep, your money and bring nothing but worries.
Drugs, cigarettes, teenage pregnancy, bad grades, being bullied, not getting a job after school. That's too much to handle and I already have enough problems to handle myself!
Why should I bring more humans into this overpopulated world? When I really redecide to have a child, I will adopt one.

Back to that "ya can't be happy without" point.
Why not? To have children and a family isn't the point of human life anymore.
Plus I couldn't even handle it. I don't like children. I only hear them screaming and being annoying for no reason.
Babies are screaming, peeing, pooping, vomiting, sobbing and eating the first few years in their life and I just don't see why this should make me happy.
I would rather have a whole zoo of animals than one kid. Currently having three cats and I want three more and two dogs aswell.
And I know I could handle all of them, because I already have. But a single child? Hell no.

And to all of you, who are going to tell me something about "you never had a child, you can't judge", I don't care. I also never was in war and although I can't judge I wouldn't go voluntarily.

Sorry for the bashing, but this just had to go off my chest.
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Comments: 38

Foxtrot-Nation [2019-05-18 23:12:20 +0000 UTC]

I agree. The same can also be said for being married.

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zencookies [2019-03-25 02:49:02 +0000 UTC]

also love how American culture still kinda over states how "being a married woman equals happiness" too. I know for a FACT having kids is still on my bucket list and nobody should be pressuring me about kids.Β 

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BardiXgamer [2018-08-12 10:10:56 +0000 UTC]

I don't wanna have Children, I hate most Children, And I *again* Certainly NEVER wanna have children

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TheCartoonWizard [2017-12-31 18:20:29 +0000 UTC]

One of my classmates said "I hate babies, everytime I see one I get angry and run away" and I say "Me too whenever I see a baby I cover my eyes and walk away" Having kids is so annoying

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LadyLambdadelta [2017-09-06 14:40:08 +0000 UTC]

Same here.

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CobaltXStrike [2017-08-10 18:56:51 +0000 UTC]

I agree 1000% with this like wow
Oh and also, my grand ma legit told me that a woman has absolutely no purpouse in the world if she doesn't give birth to a child and she is worth nothing and is a waste of resources if she dies childless. THANKS, GRANDMA! I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER NOW :DDD

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Orangepelz [2017-04-18 22:46:36 +0000 UTC]

I've been in many situations where family members would tell me
:,, You're still young, in a few years you'll want to have a boyfriend and children ^^."
Whenever they said something like this I usually replied with : ,,No...I don't want to have any relationships and I certainly don't want any children Γ²_Γ΄"

But then they repeat the same goddamn sentence until I give up xD

This is so annoying. I mean...I'm almost 20 years old I think I know what I want and what I don't want in my life Γ΄_Γ΄
And marriage&children are certainly not on the list. e__Γͺ

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Pin-eye [2016-03-18 20:27:54 +0000 UTC]

Yeah I've had the same stuff said to my by friends, family, and my teachers in college. It's so annoying. :/
If anything don't listen to that stuff, and live your life they way you want to. If anything people should respect what you decide to do and not push you. And in worse cases, remove people who don't support/respect you, or simply try and make you feel bad about your choice. Sadly it has come to that case a couple times, but different convo and situation. Also would it be okay if I use this stamp on my DA page?

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to Pin-eye [2016-03-19 15:21:56 +0000 UTC]

Some people luckily stoped it, they know my opinion now but still think I'm crazy but whatever. I started ignoring the older coworker wich didn't stop trying to convince me to get pregnant, makes it easier now. My mother takes it easy, she probably won't have any grandkids, since my brother is gay but she's pretty fine with not being a grandma she says. Wich makes me wonder why my mother can accept it but not random strangers xD
Sure, go ahead and use it

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pastelgazelle [2015-07-12 06:21:03 +0000 UTC]

My best friend and I are planning to be roommates when we're old enough to live without our families. He's all I need to be happy with my life.

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Yokai-no-Red [2015-07-08 01:30:40 +0000 UTC]

There is more important things than having kids.. and sincerely, we are already a big population, not needed to bring more for nothing...


honestly, i don't understand why not wanting to have childs is a crime, and like someone said, we have to focuse more about cancer, hope there is more solution about it in my country too..

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fanfics4ever [2015-06-27 16:43:42 +0000 UTC]

I've alsoΒ decided that I never want kids, even when I get older. ButΒ of course, after hearing this, my uncle threw at me "Who's gonna take care of you in your old age?"

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KaulitzWolf In reply to fanfics4ever [2015-06-27 23:51:05 +0000 UTC]

Many people with children sit alone in nursing homes for years before dying with only the staff there for them, at least without children you can choose your own end and make arrangements to be sure you're taken care of (maybe with all that money you saved from not having kids).

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fanfics4ever In reply to KaulitzWolf [2015-06-28 00:57:52 +0000 UTC]

I'd rather do that, but I can't at the moment, being a 21 year old college student. Once I get my degree and a real job, THEN I can think about saving for retirement.

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KaulitzWolf In reply to fanfics4ever [2015-07-04 00:24:03 +0000 UTC]

I'm in the exact same situation, age and all, but we've got plenty of time to build savings in the future.

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fanfics4ever In reply to KaulitzWolf [2015-07-04 02:55:18 +0000 UTC]

not according to some people; my uncle was working at 11 and thinks I'm lazy for not being the same way

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KaulitzWolf In reply to fanfics4ever [2015-07-05 12:27:26 +0000 UTC]

How old is he? Because times have changed and it's harder than it was even 10-20 years ago to get into the work world and start making enough to live. Don't take his judgments to heart, work at your own pace and do what is right for you, not what other people say is right. After all, you're the only one that has to live your life.

Sorry, went a little Hallmark there, but I genuinely believe that.

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fanfics4ever In reply to KaulitzWolf [2015-07-05 18:59:58 +0000 UTC]

Come September he'll be 44, twice my age. At 11 he was clearing trash (sticks, rocks, etc.) at constructions sites, and he's worked at restaurants, built cars, and installed glass and windows. He just HAD to work at one point because my grandma got really sick when he was a teenager.

it just sucks because every time he sees me playing a video game, or on my computer, he thinks I'm lazy because he stopped playing video games at 11 because "he was to old for them." Basically, to him, there's an age limit for fun.

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KaulitzWolf In reply to fanfics4ever [2015-07-06 08:28:19 +0000 UTC]

He was just cheated out of a childhood, but that's not your fault.

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fanfics4ever In reply to KaulitzWolf [2015-07-06 09:26:24 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, he did, but he was still able to have fun. With him, he WANTED to work at 11. He and I are just from different generations and different lifestyles.

I'm just being an overgrown kid, because I couldn't be one with theΒ life I had (step-mother issues...) and he sees it as weird/wrong. I don't watch sports, I watch cartoons! I don't care about dating, I care about the person I never cared about from 8 to 17; ME! I don't need a drivers license, busses work for me (cars are to expensive anyway...)Β And when I ask for advice, I don't need criticism.

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to fanfics4ever [2015-06-27 23:49:01 +0000 UTC]

Why worrying about that now? Just live your life and try to save money for the old age.

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fanfics4ever In reply to MarauderWolf93 [2015-06-28 00:56:53 +0000 UTC]

for all I know, I may not make it to old age.


Of course, when I get a REAL job I'll start saving, but I'm in college at the moment working towards a degree to getΒ a real job. At the age I am now, my parents had already had me and my sister, so I'm already better off.

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SonOfLestrange [2015-06-27 16:30:35 +0000 UTC]

Same here.

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atomicbetty12 [2015-06-27 16:03:10 +0000 UTC]

I would rather do this:
9gag.com/gag/aMQrvBP

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to atomicbetty12 [2015-06-27 23:47:55 +0000 UTC]

I've seen that post before. Not my type of travelling, but yes, so much better.

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Kiborg-Graph [2015-06-27 12:15:55 +0000 UTC]

And not to mention this world being a total hellhole - all the wars, the Ukraine, Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan, terrorists terrorising, Putler denying Russia's being involved in the war, neighboring countries are already starting to feel threatened because of Putler's war; information wars, twisting of facts; then comes the consumer culture, YOLOSWAG douchebags, all them 'reality shows', climate change, overpopulation threats: basically, whenever someone breeds, it is like saying to the new human: "Welcome to clusterfuck".

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CL0UDZZ In reply to Kiborg-Graph [2018-08-03 09:06:55 +0000 UTC]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

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ZekeEugene In reply to Kiborg-Graph [2016-11-21 07:11:54 +0000 UTC]

"Planet Clusterfuck" should be the new name for Earth.

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to Kiborg-Graph [2015-06-27 23:46:59 +0000 UTC]

Oh yes, you are sooo right.

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LostAtSeaOFF [2015-06-27 11:22:06 +0000 UTC]

We should be funding more research into finding cures for cancer, not popping out more babies

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atomicbetty12 In reply to LostAtSeaOFF [2015-06-27 16:02:35 +0000 UTC]

Finally someone says it

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LostAtSeaOFF In reply to atomicbetty12 [2015-06-27 16:04:51 +0000 UTC]

Thanks o3o

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to LostAtSeaOFF [2015-06-27 11:25:25 +0000 UTC]

I actually don't see the connection here, but yeah sure

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LostAtSeaOFF In reply to MarauderWolf93 [2015-06-27 11:29:21 +0000 UTC]

But I fully agree with you, I would also be a really terrible father XD Plus I have my band, I would rather spend the next 20 years with my band than the next 20 years raising a kid I probably wouldn't care for properly

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MarauderWolf93 In reply to LostAtSeaOFF [2015-06-27 23:46:17 +0000 UTC]

Ah you're lucky. As a guy you aren't judged that often, but as a women ... But yes, why stressing yourself with a kid when you can do things you love instead?

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LostAtSeaOFF In reply to MarauderWolf93 [2015-06-27 23:55:30 +0000 UTC]

Technically I'm female, because I'm a transboy, but nyah, I know what you mean

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Gone-Goodbye [2015-06-07 09:50:07 +0000 UTC]

I so agree.

Having kids doesn't equal to live a happy life.

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Jaguarkralle1 [2015-06-06 21:26:49 +0000 UTC]

FINALLY THANK YOU
That's exactly how I feel, I'm so happy to know that I'm not completly alone with my opinion

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