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if you've got a mental illness or are generally just a very anxious person and need to complete a task that you really dont like but have to do
please know that you are not alone out there and that it is completely okay to feel like for example not wanting to do that essay that's been waiting for you to finally get started on
many people feel that way, even i do
if you've got tasks to do that you dont like/are too scared to complete
try to make a plan
make yourself a timeline when you're going to get started on your work
get yourself a sheet of paper and note down how much you would like to work on your task each day
dont set a deadline just yet, that will only make you even more anxious and you will probably end up procrastinating again
make sure to get a little bit of work done each day
just a small bit
sit down, sort yourself and try to concentrate, even if it's just for five minutes
make sure to take enough breaks doing whatever you love to do like watching your favourite series, treating yourself with something sweet, sitting down on a bench outside and listening to the nature
if you feel like you have gained enough energy, continue doing your assigned task
five to ten minutes of pure concentration are usually enough to get at least a good part of your work done
if you feel confident enough, you can also add another five minutes of work each time you feel like you are mentally stable enough to work yourself a little closer towards your goal
you can get a lot of work done this way, trust me
im sure whatever work you've got to do, you CAN do it
you are a smart human being and i know you can get anything done if you follow my advise
oh and also please dont forget to drink enough water
like that you'll be able to concentrate even better
i believe in you
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Comments: 277
AintAnonymous [2017-04-20 17:43:56 +0000 UTC]
I find it sometimes heavy and sometimes light to have an addiction but I appreciate and find encouraging the message of hope and encouragement. Aint Anonymous (Alan)
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GrumpyGrumpster [2017-04-20 15:20:31 +0000 UTC]
How to get your life back together for couch potatoes
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punkncolors [2017-04-20 12:18:36 +0000 UTC]
so sweet! ...so thoughtful... 💕
you've just made my day!
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MechaSim [2017-04-20 11:10:40 +0000 UTC]
This is like the sweetest thing anybody ever said to me.I'm just getting yelled at for not finishing my work in time or when trying to better my mental state.This is so kind and just beautiful of you to give people in need advice.Thank you so much!
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BonoMourits In reply to ??? [2017-04-20 09:30:20 +0000 UTC]
Sweet!! Gentle yet powerful words. Words we all need at times!! Power to everyone! <3
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rinihimme In reply to ??? [2017-04-20 05:28:57 +0000 UTC]
I really needed this, thank you so much!
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DevilTrisa In reply to ??? [2017-04-20 01:38:12 +0000 UTC]
This is so sweet i'll be sure to spread this around ;u;
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StarlessTrooper2112 [2017-04-20 01:26:29 +0000 UTC]
My task was to deliver water to grandma. I did what you said and drank all the water. Now there's no water. Fuck?
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FawnofLove [2017-04-19 23:03:57 +0000 UTC]
thanks, nhyku
you've actually really helped me
you've helped me a lot throughout the year since 2017 has been extremely stressful so far
one of the only other people other than you who have helped me is faith03786
i admit, that was just a sneaky way of getting them to see this
because nhyku, you can help a lot of people
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haley03786 In reply to FawnofLove [2017-04-19 23:09:36 +0000 UTC]
awe
i really needed this actually
thanks for tagging me
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salyssong In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 22:12:23 +0000 UTC]
I don't have a mental ilness but my best friend suffered with PTSD when she was in high school. I stood by her side when she was recovering and that brought us closer. We now live together and most people who mea us think we're a married couple when we're more like brother and sister to eachother.
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chivalryss [2017-04-19 21:38:07 +0000 UTC]
amen, I procratinate sometimes but I always complete my tasks. Be good to yourself too and peace be with you.
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FireflyEmber [2017-04-19 21:34:55 +0000 UTC]
I needed this so badly right now.
*hugs everyone*
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IsaacChamplain In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 20:59:54 +0000 UTC]
You sound like a concerned mother XD
This is good advice though.
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The-Honest-John In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 17:47:19 +0000 UTC]
Although I am not in distress, thanks for encouraging words.
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Nvda24 In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 17:34:35 +0000 UTC]
Thanks .. i was just scrolling and this post appears out of nowhere and this was the only thing i needed. Thanks.
APPRECIATED 👍
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Ravensie In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 16:59:24 +0000 UTC]
ahh this was really nice to read <33
might sound weird but im a confident and outspoken-type person but still have anxiety :'D
it's when i share my intimate thought's/opinions(not anything related to fair criticism) or i share my work to other people, specifically gifts. I made 2 cards with watercolor for my science teacher the other day bc she was one of my favorite teachers. I remember i felt so anxious about it, like i was sweating, my heart was beating so fast and i felt really nervous :'DD
this probably because im a really reserved person, i don't share a lot of my intimate thoughts, problems or gift people/make fanart/etc usually. This is only when i really trust the other person or i really care about them. And it's been getting harder for me to do this lately, starting to think i have trust issue's ;;
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powdrsoft In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 14:45:54 +0000 UTC]
i am so happy i could bring a smile to so many peoples faces!! i love you all!!! <33
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cherrycorgii In reply to powdrsoft [2017-04-19 17:16:32 +0000 UTC]
thanks! this really helped me a lot since i'm studying for my GCSE's and i'm anxious about doing the actual thing when i go back <33
and i wuv chu too~
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TheAnimalArt2005 In reply to ??? [2017-04-19 09:12:34 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much!! I really needed to hear that! I have WAY to much work to do and it is blowing my mind, but this, what you wrote, boosted my confidence! Thank you so much and I wish you the best of luck with what work you must do! Thank you <3
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theJfluffy [2017-04-19 02:59:27 +0000 UTC]
Thank you for these words of encouragement. I got a lot to do, but I'm trying my best to succeed. I'm a sensitive kind of guy and I can feel the pressure of completing important work on the time. I still got a lot to do, but I believe that I can do it thanks to you. Wish me luck.
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lightbleueyes [2017-04-19 02:20:21 +0000 UTC]
Nothing seems right anymore, the universe keeps telling my thoughts away and I desperately want them back :c Nothing seems like a good idea anymore
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StormLaurel [2017-04-19 02:14:19 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much
But if I want to treat myself to something, I'm not allowed to go outside and none of my friends text very often (it's break right now, so I can't talk to them at school or anything), so all that's left is art or writing, which I have to hide from my parents...
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leiko-7fox [2017-04-19 01:43:58 +0000 UTC]
and don't forget good sleeping habits! 11pm at latest. at least 8 hours of sleep.
thanks for sharing this <3 i've been trying to tell myself these same things and so its encouraging to see it reinforced.
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Neoklaitus [2017-04-19 00:57:09 +0000 UTC]
But what do I do if what I like to do is what causes me anxiety?
I want to write, i really do, but despite everything I try I can not do more than half a page a day, and that is a good day.
No matter how much I say that's fine, It's hard not to feel like what i write is trash some days.
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